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Sunday, 16 May 2010
New Beginning...>
Its been more than a yr since we last blog....and i suppose we both kind of forget abt this blog of ours...
As times passes, i realise alot of things changes...n we tend to take things n each other for granted. I do silly things just to get his attention which in the end turn out to be the wrong kind of attention that i wanted to get from him....Probably things ain't the same anymore as before...the level of tolerance is lower....we quarrel even easily.....over the slighter things...it always started over small simple things n becos of our stubborness none of us want to give in, it turns out crazy....
Just hang up the phone after chatting with him...n i tot of tis blog...i tot of the time we used to spent together...the happier days back then...simple and carefree....the days where we just got together..everything was so pure and innocent...n i wonder where have the we gone to...
i rmbered the time when we sat at the playground downstair my house...and he singing songs to me...songs that was meant for me...sang from the heart...the shyness he showed when he sang the songs to me...those xiao ru ran zuang days...where my heart flutter for him seems to vanish over time...and as time goes by we seem to forget abt the past...now that we are married....i wont say we are less loving but i think we tend to take things for granted n the feeling are nv the same as before...the care n concern he showed is also different...in the past he would probably be too over concern....but now perhap it cause its always happening that hes ignoring me whenever im piss...leaving me to get angry leaving me to cool down myself....n leaving me to be alone till i want to contact him.i hate that kind of feeling to be dump alone whenever im piss...i hate it....i feel so not love...i cant help but to tear... y issit tat he can be so nice to me when everything is ok...but whenever we quarrel he can be so cruel as to dump me alone....he wont be worried abt my safety...i do not know how long we gona last...or when will he start to get tired of everything n decided to let go...i do not know how long he can keep to the promise of being with me till we grow old together....y cant i be stronger...i wish i could be more independent and not depend so much on him...i miss the good old days...i miss the caring him...i wish we could go back to the past...i wish we could start all over again...
sometimes he just give me the feeling that he isnt realli bothered or concern at how our wedding will turn out to be...hes taking everything too easily..n i feel that as the man of the house...he shld be putting in more effort to make our wedding n future a better 1....i wished he could let me feel more secured...hes taking n thinking everything too easily...thinking that everything would turn out fine....but as a gerl...who wouldnt want her wedding to be the best, to have big surprises..but yet he doesnt seem to be realli putting any effort in planning...hes taking his own sweet time to do the things...n i wonder if he realli wants the wedding to turn out grand...='(
haix....it seems like its too late for any regrets...no wonder they say that guy changes after marriage...b4 marriage everything yes...after marriage everything no....im hoping and wishing for a new beginning...a new chapter in our life...things to change...to turn out fine...he to show more concern...he to be more auto...he to put in the effort...to take things seriously...to love me more...to understand me deeper....
Tuesday, 24 February 2009
Marital Status: Married =D>
HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol... wat a shout!! we're back!!! after awhile.. haha.. i'm so excited and happily happi happiestly happilerly to announce.................................... we're MARRIED!! woooooooo! lol
heh we went thru the ROM on the 18th Feb 2009! it was a longggggggggg longgggggggggggggggg day, very eventful, fun, exciting, delicious, happi, handsome, beautiful, sunny, and.. more fun.. haha.. alrighty lemme start from the morning.. *it's a shame i cant upload the pics now coz i'm in the office =P*
7.54AM - ring ring ring~ handphone rings~ me blur blur pick it up.. it's my wife.. lol.. i tot she so early woke up oredi so excited cannot slp? but is not.. hahah... she call n say she got tricked by the radio station~ lol.. thanks to her aunt.. 97.2fm called her to disturb her.. say they're from ROM and there's a special theme for that day, all couples muz wear purple dress and yellow pokka dots.. -_- lolz! if not cannot ROM.. den my lao po ask "wei shen mor!?" haha in a v funny way.. like so shocked.. ahhah... ok anyway~ after the conversation~ i off the original alarm which is suppose to sound off at 8am, n went to wash up...
8.30AM - i'm preparing to change, i guess my lao po too.. she shd be gettin ready... n i called my cousin ah Seng to make sure he's not slping n is gettin ready to come too.. coz.. gratefully, he v on.. n he's driving us ard the whole day.. heh.. really appreciate his help.. n o yes.. he wasn't slping thankfully.. he's washing his call to blink blink state! haha
8.55AM - i went down to get breakfast for my lao po after gettin the call from Ah Seng, he say he'll be here in 10min.. but he eventually took longer than tt.. lol... so i went to get some breakfast n got a bit extra for Ah Seng and Bing Qin, my other cousin who oso v on, and helpfully agreed to be our photographer for the day! =D den i boarded Ah Seng's car and went on to pick Bing Qin and my lao po up...
abt 9.50AM - we reached the Bridal Shop, ok give them a bit of credit and advertisement, it's Bridal De Couture at Club Street, near Chinatown.. haha.. so my lao po went on to do her make up wif the MUA, Li Hua (she did a gd job for my lao po.. =)) while me and my cousins started taking photos and stuff.. while i occasionally walk here and there to see how my wife is doing.. haha after awhile the MUA told me to get changed first.. look more handsome.. wahaha... so i go change and Bingqin continue taking photos of the make up process and some quality artistic shots of the flowers and rings and anything and everything.. haha.. before long, my wife's make up is done! v v v v v v v v v X infinite v v v beautiful heh heh heh.. den she go make her hair.. wow got curly curly.. very nice! haha.. so den she become the most moster mostest prettiest beautifulest ROM bride in the world.. *hey of coz she's my wife afterall.. hehe*..
11AM to 12.30PM - we're done! we tot the make up and stuff would take at least 1.5hr to 2hr.. but it's all done in 1hr.. -_- so we're very early.. our ROM is at 1.45 officially.. haha.. n den my lao po complain hungry liao.. hahah.. so i've to feed her the food i bought lor~ den bingqin take more shots.. haha.. den we were discussing ok now still so early whr shall we go? in e end we decided to go to esplanade for phototaking.. but end up driving to fullerton there near the merlion for photoshoot.. haha.. but there quite nice leh~ b4 tt we oso took some shots outside the studio.. at fullerton there we took one shot wif the blue blue sky v nice! and we go underground got the escalator there oso v nice! when can den we upload the pics.. =D
12.45PM - after the photoshoots.. we move on and arrived at ROM at abt 12.45PM.. as we were alighting from the car, we saw my lao po's aunt~ they oso v early.. and it's this aunt who sabo my dear wif the radio station prank lor! haha... after tt our families and relatives started streaming in.. i think hor on that day we have the most number of guests.. haha.. i c other couples like only a few ppl came.. heh we so big hoo haa.. =P so we chit chat ard.. took a lot of photos and stuff.. den we went in to register at abt 1.20PM
1.30PM - we were sitting outside the ROM room.. waitin for our turn to go in wif excitement and anticipation.. we continue snapping wif dear's ah ma and parents and my parents and many ppl.. and finally.. our names appear on the screen.. it's finally our turn to go in...
1.40PM - we went into the room, duno wat to expect.. a lil bit of nervousness, but was quickly eased by the light atmostphere coz we got so many guest.. noisy.. haha.. the solemnizer invited us to take our seats.. together wif our witnesses, our dads.. the solemnizer den start his work.. b4 he start reciting the vows he made sure we noe y we're here.. lol.. ok so he started.. and haha he kinda read slowly wif a lot of breaks.. so i struggled to catch the point whr i suppose to say "yes i will".. so at one pt he stopped for quite a few seconds so i answered once, den at the end another time.. same for my wife so i guess it shd be like that.. haha.. when i said "yes i will", i was sincere and happi! keke.. coz it's like my pledge of love to my wife.. =) i'm sure it's e same for her too! after tt.. we hav to recite to each other the solemnization.. holding each other's hand.. heh.. we read after the solemnizer so it was alright.. not too much problem pronouncing the words.. and den we went on to exchange rings.. ^^ hafta purposely tilt to an angle so can take photograph.. haha... den the solemnizer said "u can now hug or kiss each other".. lol! as expected.. my wife is v v shy la! haha.. so we hugged... wa lao den her another aunt.. come out n try to push our face together.. -_- so rough! no manners! hahah...
1.50PM - we went out of the room.. den got pestered again to kiss.. hahaha.. we eventually did as she gave in.. no choice.. hahah.. n we took more shots! didi and kangwei (my nephews) oso took the flower n take photo.. haha.. v cute! den we proceed outside to... yes.. take even more photos! haha.. it's a day of photography.. so we took turns to take photos wif diff grps of ppl.. and oso in the end we took a large family photo.. haha.. wif everyone in... =)
2.10PM - ok everyone was hungry by now.. so we told them e venue to go and whr to park the cars for cheaper rate *far east square's parking is daylight robbery!!! $2/half an hr).. den we proceed for our high tea reception at Zhou's Kitchen @ Far East Square.. b4 tt we went back to the bridal studio which was v nearby to take my dear's shirt coz she forgot to take it when she changed to her gown earlier tt day.. lol... den we made a couple of rounds ard Far East Sq coz Ah Seng couldn't find the right way there.. haha.. by the time we reach everyone else reached oredi... =P
2.45PM - 5PM - we had a wonderful ala carte buffet meal there..! order a lot a lot of food, by the end, no one can put in 1 more grain of rice into their mouth! haha k la a bit exaggerating.. but it was pretty good food for a decent price.. but kena conned the tea, keropok which they serve b4 the main food comes, and the tissue.. all chargable..! haha but aiya forget it.. the tea was quite nice... n thanks to my dad~ coz he paid for the meal.. =) so everyone had a good chat during the high tea.. my wife's family took turns to tok (or rather interview lol) me.. haha so it was a nice get-together session la.. our parents sat together and now kinda noe each other a lil bit.. haha.. my dear's 3rd Aunt even know Ah Seng coz they work near each other last time~ haha... after the buffet we left abt 5PM.. nx we head to hertford road to collect our jellyhearts~
6PM - i'm quite lost abt time by den.. i suppose it's abt 6pm when we reached home.. heh n we hv a lil reception for some frens tt evening.. plenty of thanks to my good buddy Weiyuan, n my v close fren Yanqin and her BF, for being there early to help me decorate the place up nicely~ v v nice and a gd job done~ thanks u all! =) so we quickly put down our stuffs and get ready to welcome our guests.. i had to quickly find songs too for the background music of our slide show of the photos we took tt day.. it was shown to our guest later tt evening... my lao po's fren - Xiao Wei, who was oso our photographer for the nite event.. was the first to arrive! haha.. n it's a shame tt Yanqin n her bf had to leave early due to some domestic affairs.. =\
6.30PM - our guests start coming in one by one or grp by grp.. tt's when a busy nite is starting.. haha.. the buffet arrives at abt 6.45 i think?? haha.. it was set up nicely and quickly by the staff from Neo Garden...
7PM - 10PM - our guests come in one after another.. n it was a great gathering as we hav not met some of them for quite awhile~! some for yrs! some of our best frens took leave specially for the event, the rest rushed down from their work.. haha.. would like to thank everyone who attended the gathering for specially making time for us.. =) i hope everyone had a great evening.. enjoyed some good food, and had a great time catching up wif each other~ haha.. Bingqin finally den came at abt 8PM.. we set up the laptop to connect to the TV, met wif some problem but was solved.. n managed to show our frens the photos! ^^ it oso feels a lil like CNY haha coz it's quite a big gathering.. o ya b4 i forget.. oso like to thank all of u for the v wonder gifts tt u all gave.. ^^ we received quite a few precious moments gift which are v v nice~ n oso others like wines and stuff.. a big thank you to u all! =) time passes v fast.. some of them had to leave early... e last grp leaving at abt 10PM.. we oso took photos wif our frens.. =) will publish if we can.. heh..
10PM to 1AM - haha... alright! it's packing up time! we had to clear up the place.. but we left the decorations there coz v nice.. haha.. den everyone was waiting for everyone to bath.. me and my wife are e last coz we let e rest bath first... while we stayed in the room to rest and open our gifts! lol... she was particularly happi tt she received a Precious Moment Globe.. coz she's been eyeing tt for a long time oredi.. ahahah.. n oso e figurines.. ^^
after bathing.. amazingly she can still eat wahaha.. after a whole day of eating... lol.. n den we went back to our room.. rest.. try our new game the little big planet.. haha.. b4 calling it a day.. or nite.. at abt 1AM..
it's really been a v long long long long day... had a load of fun... and happi.. and v v memorable.. =) thanks to everyone.. and especially my wife.. who completed me by being my other half.. who sticked wif my during my NS.. whom decided to put her trust in me by marrying me.. whom loved and care for me.. despite some arguments now n den.. for puttin up wif me.. =) I love you dear.. and i will stay by u and take gd care of you for the rest of our lives... =) hehehehe..
ok wa wat a long long post!! think i took almost an hr to write this.. lol!! v substantial and meaningful rite? haha.. happi reading!! =D
Thursday, 20 November 2008
i mIss my Dear!!!!!>
its 2.17pm....im suppose to be studying for my final paper for next tues n weds....but as usual..the mood to study is not there...feel like theres still ample time to study..haha always like to drag. I miss my dear so much..how i wish he is here with me...wont be so bored then. tis week hasnt been very productive...except for studying of 3chaps on mon, tues went to sentosa for RSAF 40 cohesion blah blah blah to play...yest was worst...haha at home but yet slack the whole day...promise to study today..but in the end i only study from 10am to 11am...then i stopped studying till now...
so many things have happened since the last post. A few good news, firstly we have registered our marriage le...at ROM...confirm to be Feb18, 09. =D gona be legally husband n wife. Hope our marriage would b like fairy tale...live happily ever after. 2nd news, dear is going to be promoted to Corporal First Class...its a rank even more rare than sergent, where onli the best of the best can get it in recognition of their hard work...haha n i noe hes very hao lian abt it...super happi abt it...im sure he will hao lian to his family tonite...though he managed not to yest...haha...we shall see...
cant wait for exam to be over...then can plan a whole list of things to do...freedom is approaching...but then still have to search for job..hopefully can get something that i like n have passion in..n i cant wait for christmas to b here!!!! long weekend break with dear...theres so many things we wana do together, but we always don seem to have enough time...so many shows to catch up, have to plan for our ROM, going down to BS to try my gown..etc... n while my dear is bz at work now...im here bz blogging...becos...i have nth better to do le...waiting for 4.30pm to arrive, then i can leave home n meet him to go home for dinner.
MISS U SO SO SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!!Hope i would be more hardworking tml n start studyning...=)
see u real soon.....
Tuesday, 21 October 2008
I LOVE MY WIFE!>
lolz! heh heh heh i'm back for more action.. i mean more blogging.. hoho tmr is the sacred day.. tmr is the day the Great One was borned.. lolx.. k la tmr is my birthday.. hahaa.. o and guess wat!? like every other time.. my dear had given me my present niao! heh but it did came as a HUGE huge surprise.. u noe y? heh.. coz.. she's gotten sth beyond my imagination and expectation.. she's got something tt i've yearned for for quite awhile.. a state-of-a-art beauty.. the PS3!! wohohohoho!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lolz.. she gave it to me last week.. hmm... humbly wrapped with newspaper.. double or triple layer somemore.. and hidden below my bed.. -_- lolx! wat a nice surprise.. i love it! keke.. it now sits proudly beside my tv.. we'll show u some picture nx time.. coz.. i'm in office now.. lol
o well so tmr's the bdae.. we're gonna go catch a movie.. and den prolly go kuishin bo~ heh but tt's wat we said verbally.. i wonder wat's actually gonna happen.. but anyway.. we'll prolly take some pictures.. den as always we'll upload em.. here! heh..
so wulala happi birthday to me... i'm taking leave on friday.. monday's a public holiday.. hope we'll all have great fun this weekend.. til den.. byebye.. heh heh i love my dear.. i love my ps3 too but i love my dear more.. =P
Friday, 26 September 2008
Cheer Up!!>
don be sianz...once again let me post some happi photos up for u to enjoy =) first up is the birth of the first batch of hamster...5 of them altogether..1 white, 2 brown n 2 black..can see im sort of extreme bias...lol.x...n the gd news is...there the 2nd batch of baby...but they are too small...5 of them AGAIN!! but no idea the colour yet,wait till they are bigger than i shall capture pics of them =D
If im not wrong, we went to jp the day before mid-lantern festival...tohave tepayaki!!! its was a nice experience...1st timer for dear...its mine 3rd time i guess?? the food is niceeeeeeeeeeeee...wana go back there again soon..must be cos of the companion too..haha..after which we went to look for didi n wei wei..they were at the park for carrying lantern..some programme at the park...wif their ah gong...
Dont it looks as though its a family portrait?? =p
n also i brought home a rocking horse...thx to the contribution from Homag...Mr Bernd. =D A big thx you to you! welll thats all for now...hope some1 knows that hes never alone. =)
26th sep 9.16am friday>
as usual.. i'm in office now.. outside it's pouring.. haven seen sucha big rain for awhile.. it's oso dark.. solemn.. and lonely... hardly the right mood for a Friday...
just like me.. aint my usual self for today coz i'll usually be slightly happier coz it's friday.. cant wait to knock off.. ok anyway.. i'm here to blog abt happier things tt happened over the past 2 days.. i wanna talk abt dreams.. dreams i had the last 2 nites.. which was.. delightful.. haha.. i'll blog it down so tt i can rmb...
the first dream was that me and my dear went to Osaka.. via MRT.. -_- lolz.. we came out from the underground.. u noe like those underground mrt stations.. den found ourselves in Osaka.. but it looks like singapore really... it's a unfamiliar place... looked a lil like chinatown.. n a lil run-down.. old looking.. den we went running ard the place.. the sea's oso juz ard the corner.. but i duno wat we were doing in the dream.. only know we're running ard n exploring the place.. it's sorta weird coz it's v different from wat i'd expect from Osaka.. in Japan.. haha... den i woke up...
the second dream's better.. i dreamt that me n my dear got a baby~~ hahah.. n the baby is v v cute.. chubby chubby cheek.. big eyes and v cute v cute.. den we were both v happi in e dream.. n my dear went to say "hejo" to the baby.. den i say no we cnt teach baby the wrong word.. muz say hello~ but she wun listen n she say "hejo hejo".. haha.. damn funny... den i got waken up by the stupid alarm clock.. =_= wished the dream can go longer.. haha.. but it was a nice dream.. ^^
ok.. tt's all abt the dream.. =\ i duno wat to say now.. i'm quite sianzed at the moment to be honest.. bye.......................
Thursday, 11 September 2008
911...>
today is 11 sept wor.. terrorist attack.. =X anyway today so far no terrorism act.. but this morning abt 8am and 8.30am got big earthquake at indonesia and japan respectively... trigger tsunami warning but expect say shd be wun tsunami..
anyway~ heh.. so cool my lao po help me upload all those photos~ nice nice.. now got many photos can see... keke.. it's sept now.. 1 more mth to my birthday, 2 more mths to my dear's last day of sch... 3 more mths to xmas... 4 more mths to CNY... 5 more mths to ROM!! =D and 6 more mths to ORD~ haha.. cant wait for these events.. especially feb and march... i'm sure there'll be a galore of pictures... haha..
recently thing's aint going well in office.. basket i hv e kinda boss tt everyone dreads to have.. so suay la... power flaunting whore.. he's e kind only noe hw to show power.. act powerful.. but no substance.. sianz la.. cant write too much here oso later suay suay got ppl c.. haha.. better be discreet.. internet is not v safe.. haha.. hmmm... but for those interested to noe feel free to email me.. lolx!
ok i gotta go.. i just come here to update coz i felt like doing so... i had nth particularly to write.. haha.. byebye